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Your Priority Centered Life
Episode 104
Learn how self-negotiation, weak boundaries, and being the go-to person can lead to burnout, and how self-respect helps you protect your time and energy.
Episode 99
You can be successful on paper and still wonder whether your career actually fits anymore. Career and talent strategist Stephen Shortt shares how to look beyond job titles and identify the abilities, interests, values, and sense of purpose that make work genuinely satisfying, plus how to tell whether you need a new career or simply a better environment.
Episode 98
If you struggle with being late, the problem may not be motivation or a lack of caring. Time blindness and time drift can make it surprisingly difficult to track time, estimate how long everyday tasks actually take, and transition from one activity to the next. Understanding what is happening can help you replace shame with practical strategies that actually work.
Episode 97
The Golden Rule sounds like good leadership advice, but it assumes everyone wants to be treated the same way you do. Executive coach and organizational psychologist R. Karl Hebenstreit explains why the Platinum Rule offers a better approach, how over-responsibility can lead to burnout, and why becoming a better leader means learning to use more of the strengths already available to you.
Episode 96
If your to-do list makes you feel more overwhelmed instead of more organized, the problem may not be the number of tasks. It may be that too many things are competing for your attention at once. Learn how to use the Five Ds to declutter your task list, identify what actually deserves your time, and turn an overwhelming list into a realistic plan.
Episode 95
Have you ever described yourself as "inconsistent"? If you have ADHD, that label may be doing more harm than good. In this article, inspired by my conversation with marketing mentor Polly Pollock, we explore why inconsistency is often a sign that your brain needs more interest, better systems, or a different approach—not more willpower. Learn how small changes can reignite motivation, prevent burnout, and help you build a life that works with your brain instead of against it.
Episode 94
Does checking email feel like a full-time job? You're not alone. Constant notifications, overflowing inboxes, and endless decisions can drain your focus before you've even started your most important work. In this article, you'll learn practical, sustainable strategies to reduce email overwhelm, organize your inbox, and create habits that help email support your priorities instead of constantly interrupting them.
Episode 93
Paper clutter taking over your home? Learn a simple paper organization system that helps you reduce clutter, manage files, and stay organized without overwhelm.
Episode 92
Tired of decluttering only to watch the mess come back? Learn simple, ADHD-friendly strategies to reduce clutter, prevent it from returning, and organize your home without feeling overwhelmed.
Episode 91
Clutter isn't just a mess. It's a low hum of unfinished business that quietly drains your time and mental energy. Learn why the same clutter hotspots keep coming back and how to create simple, manageable systems that support the way you actually live.
Episode 90
Is what you're calling ambition actually avoidance? Executive coach Kenyada Meadows spent over 25 years in Wall Street risk and compliance before he started asking that question about himself. In this episode, he brings that same clarity to burnout, boundaries, and the cost of being everyone's go-to person.
Episode 89
High achievers are often the most competent people in the room. They’ve built their lives and careers on being dependable, efficient, and capable. But those same strengths can create a hidden problem: they become the default person for everything.
Episode 88
You've agreed something needs to change. Now what? In Episode 3 of the Actually Talking series, Dr. Alise walks through a structure for problem-solving conversations that keeps both people feeling like they're on the same team, whether it's a financial disagreement with your partner, a conflict at work, or a recurring tension with a teenager.
Episode 87
It’s ironic that, for a lot of us, the relationship with our partner is the one that gets the leftovers. In this episode of the Actually Talking series, Dr. Alise brings 20+ years of clinical experience to the conversation most couples aren't having about how they actually communicate.
Episode 86
In this first episode of the Actually Talking series, Dr. Alise gets into the communication skills that don't just get you through to bedtime, they build the relationship you actually want with your kids.
Episode 85
If you've ever wondered why you can know exactly what you should do and still not do it, this episode with Dr. Laurel Mellin, health psychologist & NYT bestselling author, is for you.
Episode 84
There's a question a lot of self-aware, high-achieving people carry but don't say out loud. This final episode of the Busy On Purpose series answers it as directly as possible.
Episode 83
If you've been listening to this series thinking "this makes so much sense, this is exactly what's been missing" and you're not sure you're going to do anything about it, this episode is for you.
Episode 82
It's 10pm. The kids are in bed. The house is quiet. And instead of winding down, you open your laptop. You tell yourself it'll just be an hour.
Episode 81
This episode digs into one of the most overlooked reasons productivity systems fail: they weren't designed for the way your brain actually works.